To start off I'm going to give you a little information on my background. I grew up on a small dairy farm in the northeast corner of Iowa in Allamakee County. My family milks 120 cows and farms about 450 acres of land. My brother and I are twins, I have an older brother and a younger brother. In a total family of 6, everyone does their part so that things get accomplished and we are earning money indtead of losing it.
My story begins a couple years ago on a cold Thanksgiving Day. My brothers and I along with my father were working on a building called a freestall barn where the cattle stay eat and lay during the winter so they're out of the weather. At the edge of the building, my dad was working along a cement ledge that was about 8 feet high. He put his hand on a large post and realized that it wasn't bolted to anything. He fell over the ledge and landed on his arm. I rushed down around the ledge and to his side, looked at his arm and realized that it was slightly twisted to the right. My mother rushed him to the hospital and arrived back a few hours later.
When they arrived home my dad told me he had broken his arm in three places. My brothers and I then realized that we would have to step it up and take care of my fathers responsibilities. My brothers and I had our own chores to do let alone. My fathers jobs were to mainly take care of the animals on the farm, decide what the feeding ration for that was, treating the animals if they were sick, and general maintenance of the farm machinery such as oil changes and what not.
During the first week without my father, I had learned how different it was going to be for the next couple of months before he was back to normal strength. My hours increased incredibly along with my responsibilities. I worked my hardest to keep up with the pace but it was extremely hard without very much guidance. But after a week i adjusted to the new setting and started to do things on my own without consulting anyone because it came to me in an instant.
My family and I worked together to take care of all of my dads responsibilities. It was hard but I tried my best to take his place wherever I could. The only thing my father could do was pretty much just walking around to make sure we hadn't been doing anything that would cause a major problem. I used this expeirience to help me make it through my first few weeks of college so far. I looked back at the past during this time and realized that someone isn't always going to be there to tell me what to do, I would need to learn how to do things on my own without worry that I am by myself in this new enviornment.
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Working on a farm gives a person good experience and a good work ethic that will help a person succeed with in their hardest goals.
ReplyDeleteThat's a tough situation but I think it's cool how you all stepped up for your dad.
ReplyDeleteIt sounds like your family is very close and works together really well as a team. Thats really awesome how much you guys did during the time when your dad was hurt.
ReplyDeleteI agree with Josh. A situation like that will teach you a work ethic and leadership skills that will stick with you for the rest of your life.
ReplyDeleteI live on a farm too and I know how hard it can be to work with livestock, especially when your dad is hurt. I think that living on a farm definitely teaches responsibility and leadership.
ReplyDeleteIt's inspiring to see how greatly you and your family helped your dad out when when he was injured. That's a lot of work to handle in addition to school and such. I bet That also taught you time management, because with all of that extra time spent working, not much time was left over.
ReplyDeleteThat would be hard having to step up to be the man of the house for quite a few months. I can't really relate to that, but it must have been stressful having such an increased work load.
ReplyDeleteI think it's awesome how you stepped up and helped get your family through a tough situation. And that is great how you can use that experience to help you with your transition into college :)
ReplyDeleteI think its great that you helped out when your dad got hurt. I dont live on farm of any kind but know people who do and know that it can be a lot of tough work. Thats awesome that you were able to step up the way you did.
ReplyDeleteIt is sometimes hard to adjust when unexpected events happen like that, but it sounds like you had the drive and the ability to take control of the situation and be there when your family really needed you.
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